Divorce is often painful and stressful for both spouses, and unfortunately, it can also be a complicated legal process.
Divorce usually entails more than just the legal procedure of terminating a marriage. It often involves the resolution of much more complicated issues, such as the division of marital assets and debts; the determination of whether either of the spouses is entitled to spousal support; or parenting arrangements if the spouses have children. In some cases, issues of family violence and the need for protection orders may complicate this process.
An expert divorce lawyer can provide you with advocacy and guidance, and will help your family achieve the best possible outcome during this challenging time.
In British Columbia, spouses can file applications in Provincial Court regarding any issues aside from property division, debt division, and divorce. Divorce is governed by the federal Divorce Act, which sets out the legal requirements for obtaining a divorce, such as residency requirements and grounds for divorce.
If either of the spouses has resided in British Columbia for at least one year, either of the spouses can commence divorce proceedings in British Columbia by filing a Notice of Family Claim in the BC Supreme Court. The Notice of Family Claim must confirm that the marriage has broken down irretrievably and there is no reasonable prospect of reconciliation. The most common ground for divorce under the Divorce Act is a period of separation that has lasted for at least 12 consecutive months.
Determining the date of separation can be complicated because it isn’t necessarily the date that the spouses began living in separate households. The date of separation is generally the date that either of the parties expressed an intention to end the relationship, with no further mutual attempts to reconcile. If there is a dispute about the date of separation, there are several factors the courts will consider, such as whether one of the spouses began sleeping in a separate bedroom or if the spouses stopped acting like a couple in social interactions. A divorce may be granted prior to one year after separation if either of the spouses can prove that the other has committed adultery during the marriage or has “treated him or her with physical or mental cruelty of such a kind as to render intolerable the continued cohabitation of the spouses.”
If both spouses have reached an agreement about all of their marital issues, such as how to divide their assets and debts; spousal support; child support; and parenting arrangements (if applicable), then the spouses can either confirm their agreement in a signed Separation Agreement, or they can ask the court to grant orders that the spouses agree to. If the spouses sign a Separation Agreement, an original signed copy of the agreement will need to be filed in the BC Supreme Court with the Notice of Family Claim (in Form F4) or Notice of Joint Family Claim (in Form F1). If any issues remain in dispute, one of the spouses will need to file a Notice of Family Claim, which will outline all of his or her potential claims.
Once one spouse files the Notice of Family Claim, the other spouse will need be personally served with a filed copy. The spouse that is served with the Notice of Family Claim will be required to file a Response to Family Claim within 30 days of being served. The responding spouse may also wish to file a Counterclaim, in which case, the other spouse will need to file and serve a Response to Counterclaim. These court forms are referred to as “pleadings,” and the court may require proof that these pleadings were properly served pursuant to the Supreme Court Family Rules.
It is relatively common for spouses to require more time to file their pleadings, but it is important to request and confirm an extension in writing, whether to your spouse or to his or her lawyer. If either spouse chooses not to file the required pleadings, the other spouse may be able to proceed in court and obtain orders in his or her spouse’s absence.
Although lawyers tend to be expensive, it is important to consult with an experienced family lawyer before filing any court pleadings because parties are only allowed to file one amended version of their pleadings if he or she wants to add, change, or remove their claims (or response to claims) for orders sought. For example, if a wife files a Notice of Family Claim seeking a divorce only and then later decides that she wants to seek spousal support, she can file an Amended Notice of Family Claim seeking spousal support and she will need to serve that filed document on her spouse. Her spouse will then need to file a Response to Amended Notice of Family Claim. If she later decides that she also wants to seek orders regarding the division of property, she will either require her spouse’s permission or permission from a judge before filing a third version seeking any additional orders.
To further complicate matters, the information included in pleadings about the spousal relationship, such as the date of cohabitation or date separation, may be considered an “admission.” Admissions made in court pleadings or petitions cannot be changed (not even once) without the consent of the other spouse or permission from a judge. Confirming an incorrect date of cohabitation or incorrect date of separation in a court pleading can have drastic consequences, so it is imperative that a family lawyer ensures that this information is correct before filing your pleadings.
There are two types of divorce:
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I got my first job at the age of 15 and it took me another 15 years to figure out what I wanted to be when I grew up. I tried almost everything – from working on a farm and cleaning out pig and chicken pens to working as an esthetician and makeup artist. I went to flight school and flew Cessnas while I attended the University of Calgary, and taught English in China during my summer breaks. I discovered a passion for photography and journalism in China, which led me to the Southern Alberta Institute of Technology (SAIT), where I obtained a diploma in photojournalism in 2006.
I did an internship with a newspaper in China, where I developed a new passion for documentary filmmaking. This led to a career as a video editor, and later as a reality-TV producer in Dubai. Just as I thought I’d reached the peak of my career aspirations, the 2008 recession came along and forced me to try something new. I moved from the flashy lights of Dubai to the cold winters of Saskatoon to be closer to my sister and her kids.
While attending the University of Saskatchewan’s international relations program, I decided to apply to law school. I was ecstatic when I was accepted, and completely oblivious to the amount of work and student debt I was about to take on. After a couple of – 50 C winters in Saskatoon, I moved to South Africa with my dog for six months to attend my last semester of law school at the University of Cape Town. I fell in love with South Africa and would have loved nothing more than to stay, but that would have required more law school and more debt, so I packed up my dog and moved near my parents in Edmonton. I articled in criminal law and personal injury law with Iginla & Company before moving to Victoria, BC in June of 2016 to start practicing family law. I’ve been practicing family law in BC ever since. I’m able to empathize with most people I encounter and I believe in maintaining courteous and respectful relationships with my fellow lawyers. I value integrity and professionalism, but I fearlessly advocate for my clients and will take an aggressive stance when necessary.
We care deeply about our clients and our clients often express that they can tell. I’m motivated by my clients’ successes, whether obtained through negotiations or in a courtroom. “Success” is defined differently by many people, but in my view, success is a balanced and just result, in which conflict and legal fees are kept to a minimum, especially if there are children caught in the middle. In my spare time, I enjoy spending time with my twin daughters, Maya and Sierra, and my husband, Chris. I love travelling off the beaten path and experiencing different cultures. I also volunteer with troubled teens, offering mentorship and guidance as often as I can.
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